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Those of us who touch the dying know what a profound experience it is– for the one we touch, and sometimes the family, and for ourselves. We bear witness to how our touch and presence truly makes a difference in the quality of life at life’s end. We have a story to tell. Our stories capture the essence of this powerful work and honor those whose lives have touched our own. Sharing our stories uplifts our intention and allows us to support one another. It also is a meaningful way to bring awareness to the role we can play in the care of those who are dying. So let’s share our stories! I believe they uplift us all. Here’s one of mine:
As a hospice volunteer, I saw a 47 y/o man  in his home for massage. Casey was a loving father and husband and a respected police officer.  He suffered from late stage ALS. Although he no longer could move his body, he still was able to speak with effort. He asked to have his massage in the evening to help him sleep through the night. So, when I arrived, he was already in bed, his beloved dog sitting at his side. One night while I was massaging his arm, he said , with great effort, something so profound that it has stayed with me ever since. He said, “When you massage me, it’s the only time I don’t feel like a sick person.” I have reflected on those words many times and I think I understand the meaning behind them. When Casey received my touch, he was only asked to receive. He didn’t have to struggle against the disease. I think he felt himself as whole again.Â
What stories do you have to tell?Â
Be Well,
Ann
